Question asked by ling
my sister is a very bitchy and prickly person and I'm starting to loss my cool is there a practice to help me stay sane or at least less peeved
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Ling
I’ve asked a few online friends who visits this blog chat to offer you their advice. They are very kind to take time out to share their advice of which they themselves will apply:
timothy miller: there are times when some one may be acting the way that your sister is, try to ask your sister is there something wrong and try to determine why she is acting that way if she says that nothing is wrong then try thinking that losing you cool is only going to make things worse better to give her some space and when in contact with her give her love and help her through whatever it is that is upsetting her
Sean Wang: This person should understand that no matter how he/she tries. There is no way to escape having to interact with his or her sister. He or She should learn to let go and also investigate what is causing him or her to lose her cool. When figuring out the problem, try and find the fault within yourself rather than badmouth the other person. He should think to himself, “Why am I losing my cool?”
He can let go by realising that his sister might be having some difficulty with HIS behaviour and she might just be using an unskillful method to change him. He should also realise that his sister would honestly do no harm to him.
Martin B: it seems he is concentrated more on her negative qualities while she has good qualities too !!!
I think he should open his heart more to her and try to help her if he can.
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well u see it's not just me she is abusive to. My mother and father as well as godmother all get abuse from her , and its as if the world owes her something
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