Question asked by Ony
Dear Pastors
Is it good to do shize’s sadhana on behalf of someone who is very angry and resentful towards parents/family members. Disheartened to see disharmony in the family. According to Hindu astrology this person has Ketu in 2nd house and ketu is meant to be cause separation where it resides. The said person exhibits such signs, i.e, disconnect and lack of regard for parents. Also harsh and cutting speech because apparently 2nd house also resembles speech..
Dear Ony,
Yes Shize practice would be good to dedicate to him. However, it would of course be better for the person himself to do the practice. But I understand that this may not be possible at this point. Green Tara is also another very effective practice for solving disharmony within the family, and disharmony with others in general. His Eminence Tsem Rinpoche often advised Green Tara practice and pujas for familial disharmony.
However, doing the practices/pujas by themselves will not provide a miracle solution to the problem. Both the son and family members must remember that they are a family and love each other. That way, they energies of the practices/pujas will work quicker to resolve the issues. If you are close to this person, then it would be very good if you can help him to figure out why he is acting like this and help him move past it, so there is harmony again. Pujas/practices create the conditions for things to happen, but we also need to put in effort to solve the issues ourselves. The practices/pujas help us to achieve our goals quicker. So after doing such practices, if even only a little amount of effort is put in to restoring harmony, our efforts will be very effectice. I hope this explanation helps.