Question asked by Patrick
Dear Rinpoche, a very good friend of mine suffers from misophonia. She can not leave the house, watch youtube videos or even phone call people. Misophonia is a neurological condition where even the sounds of other people eating or breathing drives you mad with rage. Can you help me with helping her ? I want her to be able to go out and find friends or at least hear music again.
Dear Patrick,
If you are sincere in your practice, you don’t have to worry about people thinking you are “showing off”. If you ask for instructions politely and sincerely, no one will think you are “proud”. It is all right if your motivation is pure.
My concern is, how sure are you that the other practitioners in the online forum are qualified to teach meditation? Do check out their background. It is always better to look for a guru or a meditation master who can guide you properly.