Hiding In Past Success to Avoid Current Failures
A person who cannot or refuse to plan for something and make it successful has to rely on his past successes if any. He has to mention how successful he was in school, in his teenage years or when he was with his parents. He has to tell you what degrees he has achieved and what awards he has received. This is to convince you to respect him. This is to convince himself to respect himself. This is to buy time that you don’t look down at him.
In the end, if you cannot or will not plan for the future and make that a success by consistent efforts, then your fear and shame makes you keep recalling the past and keep on advertising the past. You want to tell people how you were in the past to distract them from you in the present and keep hiding in that space. Move forward already. Overcome within you anything that hinders what it takes to be successful because you and those who supported you deserve it.
Tsem Rinpoche
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Life is always full of ups and downs. Always staying stuck in current failures is not going to get us anywhere. Just let go, think positive, good vibes and putting effort to move forward is the key to a more successful future. Thank you Rinpoche for this nice write up😍👍
The truth is by letting go and realize that the situation is past, we can have a peaceful mind to move forward and improve ourselves. By moving and looking forward times will tell. Past is history and its over .
Just move forward and give up who we have been for who we can become. Thank you very much for the good teaching article.
What you are going through now is not permanent. When we are willing to continue during times of great difficulties, no matter how huge we still need to overcome. The truth is by letting go and realize that the situation is past, we can have a peaceful mind to move forward and improve ourselves. By moving and looking forward times will tell. Past is history and its over . We need to change our mind to change our life for the better.
Thank you Rinpoche for this teachings.
We have to always move forward and improve ourselves. Past is history and we need to change to be better. Many times we are very afraid of change as we need to put in a lot of hard work. But as long as we try to explore we will achieve new result. Thank you Rinpoche for your teaching.
Change is to step out from our comfort zone. Growth is painful but staying stuck somewhere we don’t belong to is even more painful. We may not have a perfect plan. We don’t have to have it all figured out. Just move forward and give up who we have been for who we can become.